How would you rate the health of your marriage? Now check with your husband for his perspective. My husband’s cup is always overflowing and mine tends to be half full. Today I’m continuing with the series Life is too valuable to merely be a spectator, shape up and become a participant. We’re looking at the H in SHAPE.
Husband – Growing in the Relationship with your Husband.
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- Have sex!!! – Men spell love S-E-X. Plus, intimacy brings couples together better than anything.