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http://cinziamazzamakeup.com/?x=vardenafil-originale-Palermo For the last 10 years I have attended “The Wholehearted Mother” conference held in the Dallas/Fort Worth area. I have missed a few but not many. I consider this time my vitamin B12 shot for a balanced mothering perspective. Unbeknownst to Sally Clarkson, she has been one of my greatest mentors as she has a beautiful heart that seeks to know HIM and shares her joys, sorrows, struggles, life, etc… which I can totally relate to. I recall first hearing her speak in CA in 1996 at a home school conference where my desire to home educate solidified and became achievable as I too desired to raise our children in the training and instruction of the Lord. What a joy it has been to shape our girls hearts to be followers of Christ. Today we are seeing some fruits of our labor as both older girls love God, are passionate about Him and serve Him.
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follow She began with SUMMER being a time of RESPONSE. This is a time to plant when we as mothers want to reach our children’s hearts. To be a planter we must invest our time (mentor). This investment of time and mentoring has been very intentional with Caryn and Courtney who we desired to know God, be like Him, and serve Him. I realized this weekend that when Cayley came into our lives I was not as intentional about what the end would look like for her given the 10 year gap and the urgency to finish well with our big girls. Hence the need for my attending the conference as I desire to clearly define our vision for Cayley’s life. It is imperative to know where you are going as you will end up somewhere. We sought God’s word in helping us develop our road map as parents. I can’t give my girls (others) what I do not have and my help comes from the Lord. I implore you to spend daily time in the word. A little adds up over time. One of my favorite ways to fill/renew my mind with truth is listening to the bible on CD at bedtime. It is calming and peaceful to fall asleep to truth renewing your mind. Be sure you attend a bible teaching church. Carefully pray about the various activities you and your children will be involved in. If you want to make family meal time a priority you might have to say no to other things. Live your live intentionally.
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Coming soon part two ( WINTER and SPRING) insight.